by bill herian » Tue Dec 03, 2013 10:53 am
My turn.
Talked to an old friend over the weekend and he told me something that took me from zero to assamad.
When I was in middle school, I was in the choir (please save choir boy jokes for the end). There was probably 3 girls for every dude, and most of us guys expressed interest in starting a separate group for the guys only. The music teacher/choir director told us if we could get a group together and show up once a week, he would be there to direct it, on his own time.
So we did. One morning every week we would get to school an hour early for men's choir. We all loved it. The teacher was a stand up guy who did a couple tours in Desert Storm, and he liked having the "boys club" just as much as we did. We had the nose tackle for the 8th grade football team standing next to the president of the 6th grade book club and we all gt along great. I remember going to the VFW and singing on veterans day, we did all sorts of cools stuff. What made it so cool is we felt like we owned it. It was 100% voluntary, no grades, no obligation to be there. Just 20-30 guys showing up because they wanted to be a part.
Then I find out this year that the school told him that he needs to find a time after school to hold rehearsal. They said that more kids will participate if it isn't so early in the morning, and some other bullshit about keeping kids at school for too long. If you aren't confused, go back and read the part where I said this is all 100% voluntary. Anyone can come and go as he pleases. Not during school hours, no grades, none of the school's goddamn business, as a matter of fact.
Now the whole thing is coming apart. A few guys are on the basketball team, one is the president of the chess club, one is the student council treasurer, etc... And they can't find a day after school to make it work.
So the school found something great that they didn't have a finger in, and decided to completely fuck it all up. I'm sure they are going to try and fight it, hoping it goes well for them. It's laughable, it started very organically and ran flawlessly for years until the exact second the administration decided to hijack it. And they destroyed it in about 6 minutes.
Done.