Redbeard wrote:DeadEye_Dan wrote:Moving on.
Having a new ring made today, was promised it would be ready by Friday and since her birthday is Saturday, I thought it would make a good surprise.
cool man. Going big?!
I'll be honest. My initial thought was to try and replace the one that was lost with as close a replica as possible, for sentimental reasons (and because I'm a stingy bastard when it comes to that shit)
But then I talked to one of my close friends/mentor types and he told me he has upgraded his wife's ring 5x in 27 years, and his reasoning and insight made me give it a second thought.
I thought about 3 c-sections.
I thought about a young lady who was high-school valedictorian, 4.0 Masters Grad, who have up her career to care for our family.
I thought about the tremendous effort she puts forth every day taking care of our oldest son.
I realize that I have virtually zero responsibility at home - she handles the kids, the laundry, the shopping, the Dr. appointments, and never, ever complains.
I thought about the hunting trips to Canada and Alaska and Maine and Rhode Island and North Carolina and Kansas and Montana and Missouri and North Dakota and the work trips to California and Texas and Idaho and Missouri and Kansas and Iowa and she never, ever complains.
So, yeah - she's getting an upgrade, and I'll be perpetually grateful for the chance to do it.