R. Chapman wrote:ohioduck wrote:I can guarantee you when my grandpa goes. I will be destroyed. If my friend said that. I'd still be beating his ass
I understand that you can be crushed and I totally understand and get that but what he can't get through his head is if he keeps moping around, the next time he'll see uncle is at his funeral. I've been trying to get that through to him but he just doesn't seem to get it.
If you understand you shouldn't be using terms like croak, or saying that he has a snatch.
You may be a dick or insensitive, out whatever you want to call it, but if you want to be a man, start acting like one and know when you need to suck it up and show some empathy. Acting like a dick, just to act like a dick is a weak ass cop out.
I agree with your feelings regarding death, but I sure as hell wouldn't treat a friend that way, or try to force then onto summertime in a time like that. If a friend of mine said that to me, there would probably be fisticuffs before we spoke again.
Sometimes, regardless of your feelings towards any situation, you need time to let things soak in. Everyone is different, and "your" way may not be my way.