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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby aunt betty » Thu Apr 10, 2014 8:41 pm

ducks~n~bucks wrote:That was not being "Insensitive" insensitive is when you secretly don't really care, but are still polite and show respect. That was just being a dick, even before he called you a dumbfuck. If one of my friends were to say some stupid shit like that, all I can say is we would no longer be friends after that.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby ducks~n~bucks » Thu Apr 10, 2014 8:49 pm

aunt betty wrote:
ducks~n~bucks wrote:That was not being "Insensitive" insensitive is when you secretly don't really care, but are still polite and show respect. That was just being a dick, even before he called you a dumbfuck. If one of my friends were to say some stupid shit like that, all I can say is we would no longer be friends after that.
If you write off a friend that easily they were never your friend. True friendship is an incredibly strong bond.

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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby aunt betty » Thu Apr 10, 2014 8:51 pm

Family first, team second, I Am Third.
Tell me who said that.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby ducks~n~bucks » Thu Apr 10, 2014 8:52 pm

aunt betty wrote:Family first, team second, I Am Third.
Tell me who said that.

Gale Sayers
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby aunt betty » Thu Apr 10, 2014 8:53 pm

Did you read the book?
If so, go get Brian's Song. You'll like it too.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby ducks~n~bucks » Thu Apr 10, 2014 8:54 pm

aunt betty wrote:Did you read the book?
If so, go get Brian's Song. You'll like it too.

No, my football coach uses that quote. I will think about getting the book though.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby aunt betty » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:00 pm

Brian's Song is the better of the two. Brian Piccalo was Gale Sayers room mate.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Feelin' Fowl » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:36 pm

R. Chapman wrote:
ohioduck wrote:I can guarantee you when my grandpa goes. I will be destroyed. If my friend said that. I'd still be beating his ass

I understand that you can be crushed and I totally understand and get that but what he can't get through his head is if he keeps moping around, the next time he'll see uncle is at his funeral. I've been trying to get that through to him but he just doesn't seem to get it.


If you understand you shouldn't be using terms like croak, or saying that he has a snatch.

You may be a dick or insensitive, out whatever you want to call it, but if you want to be a man, start acting like one and know when you need to suck it up and show some empathy. Acting like a dick, just to act like a dick is a weak ass cop out.

I agree with your feelings regarding death, but I sure as hell wouldn't treat a friend that way, or try to force then onto summertime in a time like that. If a friend of mine said that to me, there would probably be fisticuffs before we spoke again.

Sometimes, regardless of your feelings towards any situation, you need time to let things soak in. Everyone is different, and "your" way may not be my way.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby R. Chapman » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:43 pm

Feelin' Fowl wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:
ohioduck wrote:I can guarantee you when my grandpa goes. I will be destroyed. If my friend said that. I'd still be beating his ass

I understand that you can be crushed and I totally understand and get that but what he can't get through his head is if he keeps moping around, the next time he'll see uncle is at his funeral. I've been trying to get that through to him but he just doesn't seem to get it.


If you understand you shouldn't be using terms like croak, or saying that he has a snatch.

You may be a dick or insensitive, out whatever you want to call it, but if you want to be a man, start acting like one and know when you need to suck it up and show some empathy. Acting like a dick, just to act like a dick is a weak ass cop out.

I agree with your feelings regarding death, but I sure as hell wouldn't treat a friend that way, or try to force then onto summertime in a time like that. If a friend of mine said that to me, there would probably be fisticuffs before we spoke again.

Sometimes, regardless of your feelings towards any situation, you need time to let things soak in. Everyone is different, and "your" way may not be my way.

I just don't want the kid to feel selfish for not going to see his uncle while he has the chance. He's just someone who will let things like this happen to him.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby sws002 » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:46 pm

R. Chapman wrote:
Feelin' Fowl wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:
ohioduck wrote:I can guarantee you when my grandpa goes. I will be destroyed. If my friend said that. I'd still be beating his ass

I understand that you can be crushed and I totally understand and get that but what he can't get through his head is if he keeps moping around, the next time he'll see uncle is at his funeral. I've been trying to get that through to him but he just doesn't seem to get it.


If you understand you shouldn't be using terms like croak, or saying that he has a snatch.

You may be a dick or insensitive, out whatever you want to call it, but if you want to be a man, start acting like one and know when you need to suck it up and show some empathy. Acting like a dick, just to act like a dick is a weak ass cop out.

I agree with your feelings regarding death, but I sure as hell wouldn't treat a friend that way, or try to force then onto summertime in a time like that. If a friend of mine said that to me, there would probably be fisticuffs before we spoke again.

Sometimes, regardless of your feelings towards any situation, you need time to let things soak in. Everyone is different, and "your" way may not be my way.

I just don't want the kid to feel selfish for not going to see his uncle while he has the chance. He's just someone who will let things like this happen to him.


Understand that you aren't wrong in thinking this, or even telling the kid this. Where you made your mistake is HOW you told him this. It is a recurring theme with you, and I attribute it to your immaturity, which is expected from a kid your age. I know you've been through some shit yourself, and it may have hardened you, but being a man isn't always about being hard. A little empathy can go a long way, even the most miserable pricks deserve it.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby bill herian » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:47 pm

This is the third thread you've started that poses this same question.

If that tells you anything.















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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Feelin' Fowl » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:49 pm

sws002 wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:
Feelin' Fowl wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:
ohioduck wrote:I can guarantee you when my grandpa goes. I will be destroyed. If my friend said that. I'd still be beating his ass

I understand that you can be crushed and I totally understand and get that but what he can't get through his head is if he keeps moping around, the next time he'll see uncle is at his funeral. I've been trying to get that through to him but he just doesn't seem to get it.


If you understand you shouldn't be using terms like croak, or saying that he has a snatch.

You may be a dick or insensitive, out whatever you want to call it, but if you want to be a man, start acting like one and know when you need to suck it up and show some empathy. Acting like a dick, just to act like a dick is a weak ass cop out.

I agree with your feelings regarding death, but I sure as hell wouldn't treat a friend that way, or try to force then onto summertime in a time like that. If a friend of mine said that to me, there would probably be fisticuffs before we spoke again.

Sometimes, regardless of your feelings towards any situation, you need time to let things soak in. Everyone is different, and "your" way may not be my way.

I just don't want the kid to feel selfish for not going to see his uncle while he has the chance. He's just someone who will let things like this happen to him.


Understand that you aren't wrong in thinking this, or even telling the kid this. Where you made your mistake is HOW you told him this. It is a recurring theme with you, and I attribute it to your immaturity, which is expected from a kid your age. I know you've been through some shit yourself, and it may have hardened you, but being a man isn't always about being hard. A little empathy can go a long way, even the most miserable pricks deserve it.


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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Mornin Beef » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:52 pm

R. Chapman wrote:A buddy of mine's uncle is probably going to die within the next few days. So my buddy has been sad for the last few couple days, I get that; I can understand that. He sent me a text today saying he went home. I ask him why. His response was he was having a bad day. I asked what the problem was, his reply was "Just stuff you dumbfuck." That pissed me off for whatever reason and I told him not to get zip with me. All he could say was "I will."

So I just put it out there for him like this-

"Yeah, I know your uncle is going to croak here in a short amount of time; death is a part of life. Quit walking around like you got kicked in the snatch, and go and be with him while he's still here. You need to realize that you only have so much time before they're gone. Quit being a bitch and go see him and realize that when he's gone, he will be at peace. Snap out of it."

He hasn't replied since. I did what I could anyways. Still don't know if I pushed it too far or not.

you dont know him as well as you think you do. Maybe he identified with his uncle's ways more than his own father. He could have been his inspiration for something. if the top ten girls showed up out of no where from your dreams and then a long blonde haired short stack punk from the U.P. came out of no where and beat you into a pulp in front of them and they laughed at you and walked away. how would you feel if your friend tried helping you while calling you a pussy while holding in a smugness? dickhead.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Tomkat » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:52 pm

aunt betty wrote:Brian's Song is the better of the two. Brian Piccalo was Gale Sayers room mate.


Gale Sayers nickname was "The Kansas Comet".
A KU alumni.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby sws002 » Thu Apr 10, 2014 9:53 pm

Tomkat wrote:
aunt betty wrote:Brian's Song is the better of the two. Brian Piccalo was Gale Sayers room mate.


Gale Sayers nickname was "The Kansas Comet".
A KU alumni.


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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby MuddyWaterWarlock » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:03 pm

Tomkat wrote:
aunt betty wrote:Brian's Song is the better of the two. Brian Piccalo was Gale Sayers room mate.


Gale Sayers nickname was "The Kansas Comet".
A KU alumni.

Well.....nobodies perfect/
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby R. Chapman » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:23 pm

Mornin Beef wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:A buddy of mine's uncle is probably going to die within the next few days. So my buddy has been sad for the last few couple days, I get that; I can understand that. He sent me a text today saying he went home. I ask him why. His response was he was having a bad day. I asked what the problem was, his reply was "Just stuff you dumbfuck." That pissed me off for whatever reason and I told him not to get zip with me. All he could say was "I will."

So I just put it out there for him like this-

"Yeah, I know your uncle is going to croak here in a short amount of time; death is a part of life. Quit walking around like you got kicked in the snatch, and go and be with him while he's still here. You need to realize that you only have so much time before they're gone. Quit being a bitch and go see him and realize that when he's gone, he will be at peace. Snap out of it."

He hasn't replied since. I did what I could anyways. Still don't know if I pushed it too far or not.

you dont know him as well as you think you do. Maybe he identified with his uncle's ways more than his own father. He could have been his inspiration for something. if the top ten girls showed up out of no where from your dreams and then a long blonde haired short stack punk from the U.P. came out of no where and beat you into a pulp in front of them and they laughed at you and walked away. how would you feel if your friend tried helping you while calling you a pussy while holding in a smugness? dickhead.

I'd be proud of him for calling me that. I really would.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Mornin Beef » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:31 pm

R. Chapman wrote:
Mornin Beef wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:A buddy of mine's uncle is probably going to die within the next few days. So my buddy has been sad for the last few couple days, I get that; I can understand that. He sent me a text today saying he went home. I ask him why. His response was he was having a bad day. I asked what the problem was, his reply was "Just stuff you dumbfuck." That pissed me off for whatever reason and I told him not to get zip with me. All he could say was "I will."

So I just put it out there for him like this-

"Yeah, I know your uncle is going to croak here in a short amount of time; death is a part of life. Quit walking around like you got kicked in the snatch, and go and be with him while he's still here. You need to realize that you only have so much time before they're gone. Quit being a bitch and go see him and realize that when he's gone, he will be at peace. Snap out of it."

He hasn't replied since. I did what I could anyways. Still don't know if I pushed it too far or not.

you dont know him as well as you think you do. Maybe he identified with his uncle's ways more than his own father. He could have been his inspiration for something. if the top ten girls showed up out of no where from your dreams and then a long blonde haired short stack punk from the U.P. came out of no where and beat you into a pulp in front of them and they laughed at you and walked away. how would you feel if your friend tried helping you while calling you a pussy while holding in a smugness? dickhead.

I'd be proud of him for calling me that. I really would.

nobody should give a shit on this earth about your pride.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby R. Chapman » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:36 pm

Mornin Beef wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:
Mornin Beef wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:A buddy of mine's uncle is probably going to die within the next few days. So my buddy has been sad for the last few couple days, I get that; I can understand that. He sent me a text today saying he went home. I ask him why. His response was he was having a bad day. I asked what the problem was, his reply was "Just stuff you dumbfuck." That pissed me off for whatever reason and I told him not to get zip with me. All he could say was "I will."

So I just put it out there for him like this-

"Yeah, I know your uncle is going to croak here in a short amount of time; death is a part of life. Quit walking around like you got kicked in the snatch, and go and be with him while he's still here. You need to realize that you only have so much time before they're gone. Quit being a bitch and go see him and realize that when he's gone, he will be at peace. Snap out of it."

He hasn't replied since. I did what I could anyways. Still don't know if I pushed it too far or not.

you dont know him as well as you think you do. Maybe he identified with his uncle's ways more than his own father. He could have been his inspiration for something. if the top ten girls showed up out of no where from your dreams and then a long blonde haired short stack punk from the U.P. came out of no where and beat you into a pulp in front of them and they laughed at you and walked away. how would you feel if your friend tried helping you while calling you a pussy while holding in a smugness? dickhead.

I'd be proud of him for calling me that. I really would.

nobody should give a shit on this earth about your pride.

I don't care if anybody does. Girls are just girls. A true friend to me would call me a cock sucking pussy while helping me up. We're still good friends. I told him my apologies and such. Just one of in the heat of the moment. We have each others back. Don't get that wrong. Just sometimes in life we need to tighten our grip a little on it.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby GadwallGetter530 » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:38 pm

aunt betty wrote:I bawled when my last hunting dog died in my arms.


I also cried like a bitch with skinned knee when I put my last hunting dog down.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby R. Chapman » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:41 pm

GadwallGetter530 wrote:
aunt betty wrote:I bawled when my last hunting dog died in my arms.


I also cried like a bitch with skinned knee when I put my last hunting dog down.

Who's skinned knee?
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Mornin Beef » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:45 pm

R. Chapman wrote:
Mornin Beef wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:
Mornin Beef wrote:
R. Chapman wrote:A buddy of mine's uncle is probably going to die within the next few days. So my buddy has been sad for the last few couple days, I get that; I can understand that. He sent me a text today saying he went home. I ask him why. His response was he was having a bad day. I asked what the problem was, his reply was "Just stuff you dumbfuck." That pissed me off for whatever reason and I told him not to get zip with me. All he could say was "I will."

So I just put it out there for him like this-

"Yeah, I know your uncle is going to croak here in a short amount of time; death is a part of life. Quit walking around like you got kicked in the snatch, and go and be with him while he's still here. You need to realize that you only have so much time before they're gone. Quit being a bitch and go see him and realize that when he's gone, he will be at peace. Snap out of it."

He hasn't replied since. I did what I could anyways. Still don't know if I pushed it too far or not.

you dont know him as well as you think you do. Maybe he identified with his uncle's ways more than his own father. He could have been his inspiration for something. if the top ten girls showed up out of no where from your dreams and then a long blonde haired short stack punk from the U.P. came out of no where and beat you into a pulp in front of them and they laughed at you and walked away. how would you feel if your friend tried helping you while calling you a pussy while holding in a smugness? dickhead.

I'd be proud of him for calling me that. I really would.

nobody should give a shit on this earth about your pride.

I don't care if anybody does. Girls are just girls. A true friend to me would call me a cock sucking pussy while helping me up. We're still good friends. I told him my apologies and such. Just one of in the heat of the moment. We have each others back. Don't get that wrong. Just sometimes in life we need to tighten our grip a little on it.

AHHAHAHA girls are not just girls. some are very hot and some a smoking and some decent and some you just have to lend favors. None of my true friends would ever say that to me. it just wouldnt even be funny justweird,
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby R. Chapman » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:46 pm

Mornin Beef wrote:AHHAHAHA girls are not just girls. some are very hot and some a smoking and some decent and some you just have to lend favors. None of my true friends would ever say that to me. it just wouldnt even be funny justweird,

Well then bless your heart.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby GadwallGetter530 » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:48 pm

What's the point of making it a big deal. Let him work shit out on his own. Why be a cock about it? If he needs time let him have it.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Olly » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:54 pm

GadwallGetter530 wrote:What's the point of making it a big deal. Let him work shit out on his own. Why be a cock about it? If he needs time let him have it.


That would make too much sense.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Mornin Beef » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:58 pm

Olly wrote:
GadwallGetter530 wrote:What's the point of making it a big deal. Let him work shit out on his own. Why be a cock about it? If he needs time let him have it.


That would make too much sense.

like creating a drama world for hunting would make too much sense?
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby sws002 » Thu Apr 10, 2014 10:58 pm

GadwallGetter530 wrote:What's the point of making it a big deal. Let him work shit out on his own. Why be a cock about it? If he needs time let him have it.


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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Flightstopper » Thu Apr 10, 2014 11:03 pm

R. Chapman wrote: Just sometimes in life we need to tighten our grip a little on it.


You still don't have a clue.
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Re: Am I a dick?

Postby Flightstopper » Thu Apr 10, 2014 11:03 pm

R. Chapman wrote: Just sometimes in life we need to tighten our grip a little on it.


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Re: Am I a dick?

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R. Chapman wrote: Just sometimes in life we need to tighten our grip a little on it.


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